There were different opinions and explanations about the relationship between Jia Baoyu and Qingwen. Some documents believed that Jia Baoyu had no love for Qingwen, and the feelings between them were more of a pampering and closeness between master and servant. Other documents mentioned that Jia Baoyu had developed a certain love for Qingwen, but this kind of love stayed at the hazy and emotional level, lacking in-depth communication and communication. Qingwen's feelings for Jia Baoyu were also controversial. Some people thought that she was infatuated with Jia Baoyu, but others thought that her care and love for Jia Baoyu was only because he was her master. Overall, there was no clear answer to whether Jia Baoyu and Qingwen were in love. Therefore, it was impossible to determine whether the relationship between Jia Baoyu and Qingwen was love.
The relationship between Qingwen and Jia Baoyu could be described as a master-servant relationship, a friend relationship, and a lover relationship. As Jia Baoyu's servant girl, Qingwen was responsible for taking care of his daily life and was responsible for her duties. Jia Baoyu also trusted and relied on Qingwen very much. Whenever he encountered difficulties or was in a bad mood, he would always talk to Qingwen. Apart from the master-servant relationship, they also had a deep friendship. Qingwen had a straightforward personality and dared to speak the truth, and Jia Baoyu also liked this kind of personality. They respected and understood each other, and they were always relaxed and happy together. In addition, Qingwen and Jia Baoyu were lovers. Qingwen loved Jia Baoyu deeply, and Jia Baoyu also liked Qingwen. This kind of relationship between lovers was very obvious in 'Dream of the Red Chamber'. The relationship between Qingwen and Jia Baoyu was complicated and multi-layered. There was the dependence and care of the master and servant, the mutual understanding and respect of friends, and the deep love of lovers.
The reason why Qingwen regretted not being with Jia Baoyu was not clear. Before she died, Qingwen expressed her regret that she had not made a plan earlier. There was another reason. However, he didn't mention the specific reason. The relationship between Qingwen and Jia Baoyu was described as intimate in Dream of the Red Chamber, but it did not involve their intimate relationship. Therefore, the specific reason why Qingwen regretted not being with Jia Baoyu was currently unknown.
Qingwen wasn't Jia Baoyu's head waitress. Qingwen was one of the four maids in Jia Baoyu's room, but her status was second only to Xiren. Xiren was in charge of personal affairs, while Qingwen did not often take on such tasks. Although Qingwen was very close to Jia Baoyu, she was not appointed as Baoyu's future concubine. Therefore, Qingwen was not Jia Baoyu's head waitress.
The relationship between Qingwen and Jia Baoyu was multi-layered. First of all, they had a master-servant relationship. Qingwen was Jia Baoyu's maid and was responsible for taking care of his daily life. Qingwen was very responsible to Jia Baoyu, and Jia Baoyu also trusted and relied on Qingwen. Secondly, there was a deep friendship between them. Qingwen had a straightforward personality. Jia Baoyu liked this kind of personality. They respected each other and understood each other. They were always relaxed and happy when they were together. Finally, there was a relationship between them as lovers. Qingwen loved Jia Baoyu deeply, and Jia Baoyu also liked Qingwen. The feelings between them were very obvious in 'Dream of the Red Chamber'. In general, the relationship between Qingwen and Jia Baoyu was a combination of master and servant, friends and lovers.
After Qingwen's death, Jia Baoyu showed extreme grief and regret. He wrote a eulogy for Qingwen in honor of her and went to visit her cousin. In front of Qingwen's spirit, Baoyu couldn't help but burst into tears, completely releasing the grief in his heart. In addition, Baoyu was extremely sad about Qingwen's death. He was full of praise for her excellent quality and beautiful appearance. Qingwen's death made Baoyu deeply remorseful. He reflected on his attitude and behavior towards Qingwen and felt guilty for the unfair treatment of Qingwen. Baoyu's feelings for Qingwen were deep. He regarded her as his beloved girl, the person he doted on and trusted the most.
Jia Baoyu's rebirth referred to the story of Jia Baoyu returning to the human world after experiencing death or other events in the novel 'Dream of the Red Chamber'. We can see that there are some novels related to Jia Baoyu's rebirth, such as Rebirth of Jia Baoyu, Becoming a Top Noble, and The Treasure of the Red Chamber Should Make Progress. In these novels, Jia Baoyu returned to the story of Dream of the Red Chamber after experiencing some changes. However, the specific plot and details could only be understood by reading these novels.
Jia Baoyu was the male lead in the classic Chinese novel,'Dream of the Red Chamber'. He was the reincarnated true body of Shenying Attendant of Crimson Afterglow Palace, the second son of Jia Zheng and Lady Wang of Rong Nation Manor. He was born with a psychic jade in his mouth. He was the grandson of the Jia family's jade generation and was known as Second Master Bao. Jia Baoyu was loved by Grandmother Jia since he was a child. He lived in a gentle and wealthy environment and liked to put on makeup and get close to his sisters and maids at home. He and Lin Daiyu were childhood sweethearts and confidants, developing a rare pure love in the world. Jia Baoyu valued relationships more than courtesy, and befriended Qin Zhong, Liu Xianglian, Prince Beijing, and other men with feelings. He liked poetry, songs, and other temperamental literature, but he hated the Confucian school of thought and the feudal literati who pursued imperial examinations and official career. However, in the end, he experienced many tragedies, including Lin Daiyu's death and being forced to marry Xue Baochai, which made him crazy.
In the end, Jia Baoyu still loved Daiyu. Jia Baoyu only loved Daiyu from beginning to end. Even though other women had appeared by his side, his feelings for Daiyu had never disappeared. His longing and attachment to Daiyu proved his deep love for her. In the ending of 'Dream of the Red Chamber', Jia Baoyu left Xue Baochai, found Daiyu, and spent the rest of his life with her. This meant that he had finally chosen to be with Daiyu. Therefore, it could be confirmed that Jia Baoyu still loved Daiyu deeply in the end.
Jia Baoyu was the second son of the Jia family in 'Dream of the Red Chamber'. He was born into a noble family, intelligent, talented, and good at poetry. However, due to the internal struggle of the family, his own confusion and the external social reform, Jia Baoyu finally walked on the road of destruction. He played a crucial role in the novel and was the core of the entire story.