What should I do if this old guy wanted me to blow him?

The first step is to make it clear that you won't tolerate such behavior. You can then consider informing someone you trust, like a close friend or a family member. They can offer you support and advice. Also, depending on the context, if it's in an organization or a community setting, there may be rules or procedures in place to deal with such inappropriate behavior. You should look into those and take appropriate action.

Well, if your old GF wanted you to share a story, you could think about a positive and memorable experience you two had together. Maybe it was a trip you took, or a special event. Then just tell it in a simple and honest way.

Well, it depends on your feelings. If it makes you uncomfortable, you can firmly tell him to stop. Or, if you want to be polite, you could nicely say that you're not interested. Just make sure to be assertive and protect your own boundaries.

I wouldn't. If he ghosted you, he clearly wasn't ready to communicate. Confronting him might just push him further away or make things more awkward.

He should immediately seek help. He could go to the police. Blackmail is a crime, and the police can take appropriate actions to protect him from the blackmailer.

This is a very difficult situation. First, you need to stay calm. Then you should have an honest and in - depth conversation with your wife to understand why she did such a thing. If you can't forgive her, you may need to consider separation or divorce.

If I were in your shoes, I'd probably feel shocked and betrayed. You could consider seeking professional help, like couples counseling. It can provide a safe space for both of you to express your feelings and work towards a solution.

No. If he ghosted you, confronting him might make things more awkward. Just let it be and focus on your own life.

First of all, trust your instincts. If it makes you feel uneasy, it's a valid feeling. You can start by documenting the incident if you can do it safely. Maybe take a photo of the person from a distance (but be careful not to put yourself in danger). Then, talk to someone in authority. If it's at work, talk to your supervisor. If it's in a public place, like a shopping mall, inform the customer service desk. It's important to take action to protect yourself and make sure this person doesn't continue this inappropriate behavior.

If an old perv is staring at you, you should immediately remove yourself from the situation if possible. Go to a public place where there are more people, like a store or a busy café.