Have you recommended a fantasy novel with the main character surnamed Chu?

He had read it many years ago, but he had forgotten the beginning. He only remembered a few parts. The male lead had always thought that he was abandoned. Once, when the male lead was on the verge of death, the female lead's mother arrived. She was very powerful and helped him solve the problem. She also told him that his parents had not abandoned him and had been silently protecting him because he was cursed to not live past the age of 18. In the previous two lives, he had not survived. In this life, there was an expert who guided him and helped him break the curse. One of them was that he could not meet his family before he was 18 years old. This crisis just happened to pass his 18th birthday, and his mother rushed to see him and save him. His father had a conflict with his family because of his curse, and he volunteered to guard the Heavenly River. He saved the soul of the male protagonist's wife (the male protagonist's wife was his senior sister and also his enemy). At the same time, the male protagonist's grandfather and grandfather also went missing because they wanted to resolve his curse. Later on, the male protagonist became the Mountain River Lord of this world for some reason. Later on, the world where the male protagonist lived was invaded by the immortals and gods of the Thirty-three Heavens. The peak combat forces of the male protagonist's world temporarily controlled a huge demonic butterfly with the souls of the male protagonist's relatives and left with the hopes of this world. The male protagonist turned into a Shura because of sadness and despair. I didn't see it later.