Have you recommended an urban novel where the main character is approachable, not arrogant, and not pretending to be a pig to eat a tiger?

Seeking an urban novel that meets the following conditions 1. The protagonist should not be too arrogant, step on everyone he sees, and don't pretend to be a pig to eat a tiger. A very approachable protagonist. 2. The main character had to pay attention to his image. Nowadays, many main characters dressed very indecently. They did not want to look luxurious, but they had to pay attention to their image. 3. No more than 4 female leads. 4. He didn't want to purely cultivate literature. He wanted more elements. 5. It was best for the protagonist not to work in a company full of beautiful women. 6. The main character shouldn't be lustful, but he must have slept with a lot of women in the past. 7. It would be best if there was a system for exchanging items and abilities, but it must not be digitized, like a game (similar to the Star Ring would be good). 8. The protagonist should not be an ordinary person, because I think it's unreasonable for ordinary people to rise up after obtaining some kind of divine weapon. The protagonist should be a killer or a soldier or something. 9. Infinite type is also possible 10. The protagonist had better not have a high IQ, just be smart. 11. The main character's cultivation path was a little more difficult. He could be in the top two within the same level, or he could challenge someone of a higher level. If he won, he had to fight with all his might. I've read the classic novels such as Heavenly King, Star Ring, and Infinite Horror. The above conditions 1…3…11…4…were very important. The other conditions could be slightly less important. If anyone can provide it, I will definitely thank you. I don't have a lot of Wealth, but I can use Q coins to repay you.