Because I was too angry with my colleagues, I pointed to him in the circle of friends. Later, when he saw the circle of friends, he came to question me. I was sitting with him at that time.

Because I was too angry with my colleagues, I pointed to him in the circle of friends. Later, he accidentally saw the circle of friends and asked me. At that time, I was sitting close to him, so he put the phone on the table and showed it to me. At the same time, he asked,"What do you mean by these words?" I was stunned by his sudden question. I hesitated for three to five seconds, then leaned over to look at the contents of his phone. I realized that this was the case. I was a little nervous and embarrassed to explain. Of course, I knew that he definitely wouldn't believe it. In other words, he was sure that I was deliberately mocking and ridiculing him in the circle of friends. However, he was really annoying. He was always nitpicking at work and giving me a hard time. Sometimes, he would even scold me loudly because of trivial matters.(I have to add that he and I are old family members. We have known each other since we were young, but we have not interacted for many years. We are so-called "familiar strangers".) In fact, I didn't say anything too bad in my circle of friends. I still left some leeway for him. The content was as follows: "How can I say that all of you have your twisted logic? You are the most awesome. You are always nitpicking. You can't be a person. You bully the weak and fear the strong! There are all kinds of people who can't be found in society…" He was still not convinced. He reprimanded me and said,"Well, take care of yourself from now on. I bought clothes racks and kettles. You have to buy them yourself. Since you said that I bully the weak and fear the strong." After that, I sent a message to my mother. She said to me,"This is not a problem, but you can't just say the dissatisfaction in your heart. You have to be calm. You don't have to explain. The more you say, the more chaotic it is. You have to be calm. Digest the dissatisfaction with others and turn it into shit. However, be careful not to casually post it in the group. If there is a problem, you have to confront it face to face. You can't be submissive. It's meaningless to say it behind your back." As for the fact that he had completely drawn a line with me, my mother expressed that she said,"He's too mean. He can even say the words of a child. It's okay. When you encounter such a thing, you have to calm down and fight back. Buy it, it's not a big deal. Go to the mall tonight and buy it. No matter how late it is, you have to buy it. You have to be confident. Put your clothes in the washing machine and dry them yourself. Buy your own daily necessities yourself. This is the bottom line between us. His words are like sauce. There's no room for negotiation. You should buy what you need to buy. As for the rest, don't bother with him. Do your own thing. If he shouts again, at most, you can just break up with him and resign from your brother (a boss I know). It's okay. You have to correct your attitude. You let him scold you. Before you shout back at him, you'll make your mother angry!" No matter how weak a person is, there must be a bottom line. You are already an adult. If your mother's bottom line is different from yours, it proves that you have more social experience than your mother. Then, I can really rest assured! You handle it yourself." I wonder if my mother was right? Please allow me to vent my anger here. The most important thing is to ask the professionals what they think about this? This little brother thanks everyone for their valuable advice.