Chapter 3: Judgemental life

What we give, will eventually come back for us. So, no matter how much pain life will give us, will never be in vain. Pain if it is what makes a human strong, will always be profitable. Pain doesn't cause any loss. Accepting the pain and moving ahead, is our only choice we are left with. There has to be a time when you will be sad and feel like everything is falling apart and nothing could be done except for letting it happen. If acceptance of the pain is the only thing we can do, then i can say i am happily depressed. If you look closely to everything, so that it starts making sense. Vessels, are made empty just to be filled. No matter what fluid it may hold, but it will hold the same amount of water as the alcohol. So as a human heart is only a vessel filled with emptiness. Sometimes with love and and other emotions. We are always full of ourselves, but we do still feel empty. There resides something that consumes everything in us. We need someone to understand us, but ourselves don't step forward to understand anyone. Everyone here is selfish, we want something but are not willing to give it to others. What if we shared everything between us, people could be understood more deeply, in a better way. But if that's how humans were made, selfish and greedy. This world holds no place for selfless ones, while they're the ones to be called as selfish by the ones who judge. On the other hand, we are willing to give love to any one we like, but yet step backwards when it comes to us, we want to be understood, but haven't looked for ourselves the deepest. We always expect someone to turn out and say, you are better, while we could be the one who's going to be telling yourself what you are. We always break when people judge something bad about us, while we could be the only ones pointing out your mistakes within yourself. Yes! We are humans, and we aren't perfect, we make mistakes and are flawed in some way or the other. Hiding our own flaws and stepping ahead to peek into other's flaws. Mesmerising them with your judgements, until they start to believe you. While the ones to believe are themselves. Lost of self belief, falling apart even harder. We should be good to people, and never forget that we are people too. All these hobbies, but everyone loves breaking others. We live in society, but we are a part of society too. We gladly accept the judgements of others, resulting in breaking ourselves. But we never think of judging ourselves according to our way and work of life. Rather than looking into people, criticising us, making us believe less in ourselves. Being nice to everyone, and making everyone smile, while they struggle to find someone who can make them happy, will be their greatest achievement in their hard times. I know, you may be broken. But selfless work comes right back at you. Karma will give everything right back to you, no matter if that is money or love, work or hate. Everything will come back at you in the way you will give it to someone. They need it, you give love to everyone, because if we are capable of making someone happy, we are capable of making ourselves happy. Their hard times will be gone, your hard times will be gone. Helping each other and being each other's light, is what the world needs. If you cannot find your love, give it to yourself first. You look better smiling and telling yourself "I can do it!" In your hardest times. Selfish has no place in this world, selfless has everything they are ready to give. People are judgemental, they won't stop judging. But if you don't judge yourself before them, you'll fall apart in the worst way. We all are people to each other. Let us be nice to everyone in the nicest way. For everyone who lives, is going through a hard time they don't speak about.