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I never hated him either. I think they both made the huge mistake of never communicating in the first life. She worked hard to turn into what she thought he wanted, without talking to him about how she felt about it or what she wanted. He worked hard to try to protect her without telling her why he was was doing those things. But I do feel the first time around she had a bigger part in the problems because he was brought up in a very unloving (really abusive, though not physical) dysfunctional family and was naturally very silent and emotionally withdrawn. She had a loving normal family, despite the tragedy and was naturally outgoing and talkative. If she had shared a little more even basic feelings and thoughts things would have been so different! I don't hate her or think she is being awful though, just a lot of baggage from misunderstandings and neither realize they could clear them up without sounding crazy!

I really wish one of them throw a what if scenario out there about being reborn! Just as a hypothetical to test the reaction of the other!

Me too! I get her first life was miserable, in a way because of him, BUT she was the one pursuing him then and was actively oblivious to so many things he not only noticed but tried to fight against to protect her. Yes, he behave cold and even cruel in his misguided attempts to shield her and should have explained himself to her before hand, but she never explained things to him either. She pursued him, wanted to marry him, but never said "I want this, or I hate that." I would say she is equally if, not more, responsible for the mess the first time. Then and now he is actively working to protect her. hehe has purposely distanced himself until he can protect her, while trying to watch over her and protect her from a distance. He made mistakes, but understood he screwed up and felt guilty about it. People act like a woman being emotional over trauma is ok, but not him? He was more traumatized than her and had no support or affection to help him through it in both lives.

But he has totally changed and it didn't occur to her either! He has even had several slips, knowing her likes, knowing things and having intrest in things he shouldn't.

Has this book been dropped? I really liked it but it isn't getting any chapters added.

I suspect something to do with Lance! He was way to invested to just drop away.

I think Christopher is better. For one, Christopher actually took action, Jasper waited until she was out of reach. Even when Christopher appeared out of no where Jasper still could have spoken. Second Jasper was trying to force his perspective on Abigail instead of listening and accepting what she wanted. I think Jadper is in a good place now and he and Christopher both made mistakes but I think Abigail should be with Christopher!

Agreed!

No assumptions, Christopher! I don't think I can handle any more messes from assumptions!