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He isn’t acting emo like most of the other MCs in these fanfics.

Psychologically humans do desire connections,but infidelity usually stems from unmet needs in a relationship and/or lack of connection between significant others. In fact chronic infidelity is a psychological disorder involving basically cheating repeatedly while knowing the consequences of their actions. People with this disorder typically have a hard time forming meaningful relationships.

Yeah, this is straight opinion based nonsense.

You should stay at the lower end of that spectrum.

Is this a harem fanfic?

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The main point isn’t whether firebenders bend heat. I think it is entirely possible for them to do so, but just becuase you can make something hotter or colder doesn’t mean you can bend it. A firebender could heat up some earth until it melts and becomes magma but if they were fighting an earthbender they could just use that against them because firebender can’t control earth.

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I completely agree that’s why I don’t attack people who make harems. I just won’t read novels that possess them. It doesn’t hurt me when there are harems and everyone likes different things. Leaving bad reviews just because you don’t like part of the setting in a fiction novels doesn’t really make sense. The author can do or say whatever they want, they just need to find their target audience and cater to them. For me, that is novels without harems while for other it may be different.

Yes, like I said nearly every woman. There are always niche groups that have different beliefs and things they enjoy and I’m not coming after them for that. My point is that the vast majority of women in more modernized setting would be far more likely to be opposed to it. It would be less repulsive to me if you saw woman reject being part of the protagonist’s harem because they would be way more likely to do that. Also in a lot of those relationships like open relationships for example all of the people in the relationship are attracted to each other and love each other not like the harems in these novels where readers often freak out and act like it’s ntr when two of the girls in a harem kiss. If the people in these books had open relationships where they could both sleep around with whoever they wanted to I wouldn’t have a problem with it. My problem is with protagonists just claiming women to be in relationships with them and authors acting like every single girl is just going to be fine with a relationship where only they need to be loyal while the other person can just start relationships with whoever they want.

That’s exactly the point. Nearly any women from a modern society would be either consciously or unconsciously be opposed to becoming a member of a harem. Also justifying harems with cheating is a new argument that doesn’t make them sounds better it makes them sound worse by making people that feel the need to start harem seem like people that are unable to stay in a committed relationship with one person despite being around other women. People having harems in these fanfics doesn’t really make them seem superior because, to me at least, they seem unable to have platonic relationships with women they judge to be attractive visually. Either way though, people can have their own opinions and making harems in fictional stories can be left up to the reader’s suspension of disbelief if they so choose.

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Lexi

Nooooooooooooooo