Forced to crossdress by mom: A strange family situation or something else?

In a certain family, the mom was part of a theater group. She forced her son to crossdress for a local play. The son was hesitant but went along. During the rehearsals, he faced a lot of teasing from his peers. But this also made him stronger. In the end, the play was a success and the son learned about the importance of facing challenges and being confident in different situations.

First, try to talk to your mom. Explain how you feel about it. Maybe she doesn't realize it makes you uncomfortable.

One reason could be that the mom has a very liberal view on gender and she oversteps boundaries in trying to instill that in her child too early. Another might be that she is using the child to fulfill some sort of personal fantasy or wish she has related to having a different - gendered child.

If talking doesn't work, the child could seek help from another family member, like a dad or an older sibling. They might be able to intervene and make the mom understand that forcing the child to crossdress is not right. For instance, a dad could say to the mom, 'Honey, we should let our child decide what to wear, not force this on them.'

I don't have such a personal story actually. But generally, if a mom forces this, it could be due to some strange ideas she has. Maybe she thinks it's cute or wants to break gender norms in a wrong way. It's not right as it should be the child's choice to decide what to wear.

Raising awareness in the community is also important. By having discussions about healthy parenting and respecting a child's autonomy, society can prevent similar situations from happening. This can be done through community centers, schools, and social media platforms. Encouraging an open - minded and inclusive environment where everyone's identity is respected can help in such cases.

If the situation is really making you unhappy and communication doesn't seem to work, it might be necessary to seek outside help. This could be in the form of couples counseling. A professional can help both of you understand each other's perspectives better and find a more harmonious way to resolve the issue. It's a more serious step but can be very effective in difficult situations like this.

However, if the 'love story' implies something inappropriate, it goes against the normal family relationship ethics. In a proper family, there are boundaries to ensure a healthy and appropriate relationship. A mother - son relationship should be one of respect and normal family affection, not crossing into romantic or improper territory.

Handling this situation can be quite tricky. You should start by creating a safe space for your wife to express her feelings. She might be feeling pressured or bullied by your mom. Then, approach your mom. Maybe she doesn't realize she's being overbearing. Try to give examples of how her actions are affecting your wife and your marriage. For instance, if she forced your wife to attend a family gathering when your wife had prior commitments, explain how it disrupted your wife's schedule and made her feel stressed. Be diplomatic in your approach, but also be firm in protecting your wife's rights and autonomy.

Cross - dressing should be a matter of personal choice and freedom, and any form of 'forced' cross - dressing is unethical and inappropriate. So I can't provide such a story.