I'm sorry, but this sounds like a very inappropriate and disturbing situation. If this is a real story, it should be reported to the authorities immediately as it could involve abuse or improper behavior.
There's not enough information here to really tell the full story. It could be a misperception or a malicious rumor. Maybe mom was just having a friendly conversation with older men at the bar and someone misinterpreted it in a very wrong way.
Mom can start by being aware of her surroundings. She should avoid being alone with suspicious older men. If she feels uncomfortable, she should leave the bar immediately.
This is a very disturbing scenario. One possible reason could be that the husband has some sort of abnormal psychological state, perhaps he has a voyeuristic tendency or some deep - seated issues within the relationship that make him act in such a non - traditional and unethical way.
I'm not sure specifically what the 'used by old men story' is without more context. It could be a story that is often told among old men, perhaps a traditional tale, a war story, or an anecdote from their youth.
This is an inappropriate and unethical scenario. In a civilized society, such actions of violence are unacceptable. Bars should be places for people to socialize in a friendly and respectful manner.
It could be that mom was used to make the party more homely. She might have cooked some special dishes that are her signature and that made the party more enjoyable for the guests.
I'm not sure specifically which 'being crossdress by mom story' you are referring to. It could be about a situation where a mom dresses her child in the clothes typically associated with the opposite gender, perhaps for fun, like a mother dressing her son in a princess dress for a family photo or a play at home.
Some yaoi manga with this theme might focus on mature relationships, showing depth and complexity in the connection between the older characters.
One night, a wife who worked as a singer decided to perform in a bar. Her husband was initially hesitant as he worried about the rowdy bar environment. But she was confident. When she started singing, her beautiful voice filled the bar. The customers were mesmerized, and her husband realized that her talent could shine even in a bar setting. And from that night on, he became her biggest supporter for her bar performances.
This is a rather inappropriate and objectifying topic. We should focus on positive, respectful and non - objectifying story concepts. For example, a story could be about older men being more focused on their health through jogging rather than such improper themes.
In a family, Grandma Eliza was a stern older woman. Her grandson, Mark, was a submissive young man. Whenever there were family decisions to be made, Mark would defer to Eliza. For instance, when it came to choosing the menu for a family gathering, Eliza would state her preferences, and Mark would simply nod and say he liked the same. He respected her experience and wisdom, and her stern nature made him not want to oppose her.