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4HOURS: "Wait I can blow myself up with no repercussions? SIgn me the hell up"

Release That Witch · C236
1 week ago

EvilHand: Silly girl
you dont bring a sword to a gun fight

Release That Witch · C163
1 week ago
I admit that I wasn't precise enough in my first sentence, as I never said it was only her fault. It would have been better to write that she can only blame herself. No offence intended, you just coincidentally used the word that I should have used from the beginning.
His "love" for FJY never existed as there is NO reason to take an outsider along on EVERY SINGLE DATE, though it could happen once or twice if it is necessary for a surprise for your partner, can't be blamed for something he himself didn't notice.
The woman YRS could forget wasn't not FJY, he just thought it was her, the joke is on Xuxu, as that was her, NOW he knows it NO thanks to her.
As far as I remember he never intentionally made her jealous, but if she was he enjoyed it as a sign that she cared about him, he did a lot to make her fall in love with him because she did her best to not show her love for her own husband.
The chocolate incident: I don't know about high class hotels, but there are hotels that for example place a piece of chocolate on the pillow, so he never suspected anything as Xuxu didn't even hint at it, blaming it on him wasn't fair but understandable.
Now the most recent event: I did say that he overreacted and he knows, calmed down and has tried to make up for everything, even the things he can't be blamed for, Xuxu also overreacted and wanted to punish him for everything he had done to hurt her. Up to here this is understandable, but what happens next is over the line. After she returned she refused to listen to anything he could have said and everything she said to him were either orders or her decisions, but with everything he did to her before they got married, it would still be fine if it ended there, but it didn't. She tried to pressure him into a divorce without even considering her child for a second, as proven when she was happily thinking about raising it on her own (at that time it still wasn't known that it would be twins).
And regarding her trust issues: what she did with the contraceptives was as much of a betrayal as YRS' overreaction.
Result: both are to blame for the current situation, but YRS knows, reflected and is trying to make up for it, Xuxu doesn't seem to know, isn't reflecting and subsequently doesn't try to make up for anything.

I never really complained, at least I don't think I did, I just wanted to voice my thoughts on how I think the situation in the story differs from the view of on of the characters involved. The author did an incredible job to actually make me think about the story this much.
You are right that all the previous conflicts between them develop the story further, but that doesn't mean that I need to agree with their actions.

To finish this: I only voiced my opinion on the current story, no one needs to agree with me and if you disagree with me, that's completely fine.
I never forced anyone to read my comment, including you, and I am allowed to share my thoughts about the story, just as you are allowed to share your thoughts about my comment. I will take it as a compliment that you actually thought about my comment that much. View More

seobb: I think you can't blame her totally, since most of the time the problem comes from how the situation plays out that caused by all party involve. And Xuxu's reaction is very normal because that is just her personality. She kept her feelings from him first because she's afraid to see YRS smug face maybe she thinks he's gonna treat her feelings a joke given how he always treated her in the past. Then when her feelings grew stronger FJY is already on the picture. She kept her feelings then because YRS seems really in love w/ FJY. And even when FJYs gone he still shows that he still can't forget her. Then when they got married, Xuxu still have the impression that YRS still like FJY because of how YRS always test Xuxu's feelings like making her jealous, I think this make her misunderstandings bigger. And for the big fight, YRS sided FJY and accuses her w/c triggers her trust issues. The point is all of them is at fault and both of their reactions are acceptable cause it make their characters real and consistent. Author can't just change their personality so suddenly. And for the record all of their fights in the past produce good growth for their characters and for me they fighting is a good thing because that is a turning point that gives changes in characters and the story as a whole. So I advice you instead of finding who is at fault just stay silent and read and don't complain because what happening now is a part of a story that needs to happen.

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C646
4 months ago

GTDidi: I am a female and I totally agree with you... Taking things logically and even emotionally, YRS has been much more mature in this and reflected on himself... In the other hand Xuxu says one thing and once face with a small difficulty, she just choses trun away.

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C646
4 months ago

Vickyg: She's accepting the food, noticing his efforts yet acting like this? He has every right to feel happy and share the moments of his babies' development. Its too annoying and unfair...

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C646
4 months ago

Vickyg: Hey...its getting tiring. Just be straight forward with her and tell her she's in the fault too. She needs to realise it sooner rather than later.

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C645
4 months ago
Most of it was her own fault as no one ever kept her from confessing her feelings or telling him about her disagreement with one of his decisions and regarding the accusation, that was YRS overreacting, followed by Xuxu overreacting, followed by a realization of what he has done and finally lacking a realization of her own misgivings. Xuxu only knows how to blame everything on other people and has yet to reflect on her own faults even just once.
I am not on YRS' side because I am Male, but because his actions regarding Xuxu, ever since their marriage, were understandable from an either logical or emotional point of view. Her behaviour is frequently just barely acceptable and recently completely overboard. View More

iEatStrawberry: Is it just me that wants to prolong Xuxu’s punishment on Yan Rusheng? For all the heart aches that Yan Rusheng had done especially the part where he accused Xuxu, it kind of hurts me😢😢😢. And I hope the upcoming chapters will be in POV of Yan Rusheng and his efforts to save their relationship

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C646
4 months ago
That's just an excuse not a reason or are pregnant women unreasonable from the moment they get impregnated until either miscarriage or birth? A pregnancy doesn't immediately change the entire personality of the woman, a part of it does though, so her old self is still there.
YRS overreacted, then Xuxu overreacted which led to YRS calming down and realizing his mistake. And Xuxu? Still hasn't calmed down and no reason in sight whatsoever, so yeah, blame it on the pregnancy instead of plain old selfishness and lack of self awareness. View More

xierra: Dont angry at xuxu. She was indeed hurt by YRS but addded with her pregnancy she is currently super duper sensitive. Pregnant lady means she is not her old self..some more she carrying twin.

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C643
4 months ago
"Are you alright?"
"I am fine."
Woman, that's where you are supposed to rip off his shirt and yell at him "How is that FINE?" or something similar. Does he need to get hit by a bullet meant for you first before you stop it with the pretence and cease lying to yourself?
Seriously, you are on a road with no return if you don't cease it with your nonsense. The thing awaiting you at the end of that road is called regret and not even time can do anything about it. View More
Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C642
4 months ago
Well, that escalated quickly. Those guys are idiots, God damn idiots. They just had to mess with the woman whose husband is possessive and overprotective at normal times and now she's pregnant with twins. They ****ed up so hard I almost pity them, well almost as they are actually asking for YRS to turn their lives into a living hell. If he heard or Xuxu tells him about the part with the disfigured face it will get even worse for everyone involved. View More
Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C641
4 months ago

KiranaAisya: Xuxu still didnt see the reality and try to understand rusheng. She just want rusheng to understand her.

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C638
4 months ago

Golda: Of course she didn't see that rusheng had feelings for her 😐. Can't she remember all the good things he did for her after they got married? How headstrong is she? 😒

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C638
4 months ago

Vickyg: Xuxu, how long are you going to keep lying to yourself and to others? This is what you've been doing all your life and trust me, it'll never bring you happiness. Open up, learn to share and trust others...

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C638
4 months ago

Vickyg: Yup..never...can't remember a single time in whole story where she noticed and acknowledged as well. Because every time she noticed, she chose to not believe...she has serious trust issues!

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C638
4 months ago

Vickyg: I don't really think her behavior with Rusheng has anything to do with hormones...it's not like she's behaving the same with everyone. Let's not dilute her attitude problem by taking advantage of pregnancy.

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C635
4 months ago
Him reacting like that was an overreaction. Can happen as it happened to her right the next moment. And the argument of him doubting her character doesn't count for anything as her not telling him about the miscarriage would be far worse if you take it in that direction.
After she denied him the chance to grow as a person during her first pregnancy he still started growing up after realizing his feelings for her and he completed it the moment he found out about the truth behind the pregnancy back then.
Xuxu still acts like a stubborn child as she never even talked to him. The only things she said to him on her own accord were either orders for him or her decisions, that's not communication. View More

elynee17: The readers are getting pissed at Xuxu cuz we want some action & lovey dovey scenes! But honestly I’m not surprised why she’s gone cold. I think him accusing her of such a vile thing is what pushed her over the edge. Yes, she really shouldn’t be angry that he never knew her feelings like damn he’s not a mind reader.
Well hopefully this experience not only humbles YRS but also allows this girl to grow the hell up and learn how to communicate properly with someone. And especially since they have a child on the way. Idk what’s going to happen to their marriage but they’re honestly both so childish and frustrating to read about. 🙄

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C634
4 months ago
She wants to raise the child on her own? Now she has done it. If YRS finds out he should send her a letter informing her that he will agree to the divorce but she needs to do a paternity test in regards to the child's father and if it is his, his family will raise it. It's obviously his child and he knows it, but she doesn't even seem to care about what is best for her own child just to get back at YRS. With everything that happened, including her first pregnancy, and the statement that it's not him but her that wants the divorce, her chances of winning are small if YRS went with my idea.
That woman wants to play it hard? She is still far too soft as she won't be able to bear the consequences if someone decides to stoop down to her level and use a vicious move.
That woman seriously needs to be taught a lesson about the importance of communication because while YRS is really bad at it she is far worse. View More
Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C632
4 months ago
Every time I read this chapter I think the same thing:
The Divine Feathers Sect doesn't need to "[order] this many experts to move" to destroy the Lingyun Sect, they just need 2 people (Martial Ancestors though), 3 if they want absolute certainty that the casualty rate is 100%. This wouldn't even disturb the security or strength of the sect the least bit, talk about overestimating yourself. View More
Tales of Demons and Gods · C447
4 months ago
Typing itself didn't take that much time, just a few minutes, but I revised a few sentences which made up quite a bit of that time. And I wrote it on my tablet, would have been faster with a keyboard.

My intention was to explain that looking at the situation objectively Xuxu is currently going much to far in shutting YRS out of her life. She doesn't neither consider that she herself might have caused some of those incidents nor does she even allow him to explain himself. That's unreasonable, but being reasonable was never a requirement for women (and men as well). View More

purple_star: You have a point. However, the miscarriage did happen and if it didn't, she should have told him. But wouldn't it make their families relationship complicated? Now that the matter is settled, it is much more peaceful than if she told them before, which would have caused a big fuss. She also doesn't like being the centre of attention so it prevented her from telling someone. As for confiding in someone, what about her diary? She could confide in that without worrying that it might leak. I just hope that one way or another they sort things out.(P.S how long did it take you to type that?)

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C620
4 months ago
You do realize that YRS has as much reason to actually be angry at her as she has to be angry at him? Both of them hid their feelings for each other though YRS hid them so well he didn't know it himself and both of them weren't really hiding anything from anyone with eyes and a brain actually used to think as there were many who had seen through both of them.
The main reason Xuxu got hurt is because YRS was hung up on Fang Jiayin, she didn't care much about the other woman he dated because she knew he just killed time by dating them. She never realized that she created her enemy herself as the only reason he wasn't able to get over her is that Xuxu never clarified that the woman that night was her. Moreover it is beyond stupid that she seemingly never even thought of telling him as she even kept quiet in regards to her pregnancy and subsequent miscarriage. Telling YRS about the pregnancy or the night leading to it would have most likely triggered a realization in regards to his feelings. And how would she have explained her pregnancy if the miscarriage didn't happen?
In the end she can't be blamed for these things as the closer you are to a problem the more difficult it is to see clearly. The same goes for YRS as it is unreasonable to expect him to know exactly how his actions effect the people around him.

Because of these reasons I think YRS shouldn't just apologize but also give Xuxu a major scolding as the root of most of their problems was created by her, though I do think he should work hard to make up for all his prior mistakes.
But knowing this novel instead of the reasonable course of action what it gonna happen is one of the most savage things:
Yan Rusheng is going to kill Xuxu with kindness View More

purple_star: Yes, but love made her do stupid things. She also has pride. Wouldn't it destroy her pride if Rusheng found out that the woman he thought to slept with was her instead? If he knew it back then, wouldn't he mock her for stooping as low as to sleep with him while he was drunk and that she made him think of her as someone else? They weren't married when it happened and Third Yan being his arrogant self had not felt any grievances in his life, so it would be likely that he doesn't sympathise with her. Now he understood it all because he got over Fang Jiayin completely. It is her choice and will, but won't she feel indebted to the Yans for raising her and she may feel kinda guilty that Grandmother died while saving her, which wasn't her fault. Didn't Rusheng keep the cause of their Grandmother's death a secret from her before she found out for herself? He was keeping silent too. Not everyone can help. It may spread and make her feel worse. Some may know and care for her while others may use it against her like tell reporters and she would have to live it down. Once the matter is settled, it won't be a big problem and she can tell someone to share her burden. But doesn't that partly make up the character she is today? Congrats if you read this chunky essay.(P.S I was doing my hw before this).

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C620
4 months ago

DaoistPeakSky: 60 years later

Me: My dear great great grandson let me tell you a f*cking overwhelming great story......... wait i think there's a new chapter today.

Tales of Demons and Gods · C477
5 months ago
Han Yifeng might not love Xiaye, but he still regrets cancelling the engagement as love is not necessarily a good thing for a relationship. He loves Xinyi and look at the result. The women of the Yue family do not bring their husbands happiness. View More
The Most Loving Marriage In History: Master Mu’s Pampered Wife · C268
6 months ago
Now it's obvious why he needed them to marry: the higher you stand the deeper you fall.
One final move and he made sure that his sister-in-law (not like he would ever call her that) won't be able to make a comeback ever again.
She got finished off using her own method but executed on another level entirely. No framing, no lying, just the one thing no one can defend against: cold hard facts View More
The Most Loving Marriage In History: Master Mu’s Pampered Wife · C264
6 months ago
We wasn't being patient before, he just didn't really care. He has tried for months to please an unreasonable woman that tested his bottomline on an almost daily basis and no matter how many times he rage quit he still came back to continue enduring and now even discarded his pride in front of her, though he was just as unreasonable towards her before he started courting her so it can be called karma. View More
Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C494
6 months ago
He already worked hard for almost two decades, as constantly getting rid off annoying flies is not that easy a task. Especially if there is one fly he can't seem to get rid off called Jiang Zhuoheng. How much work did Xuxu put in? Making handmade chocolate once, seducing him while acting like someone else once and that's all I remember her doing in regards to their relationship and one of those times (the later) she even tried to trick him.
So him trying hard to monopolize her for almost her entire life against her remaining passive most of the time and even sabotaging herself by pushing him to another woman when she was actually doing something for once.
Result: in both effort and efficiency there is an obvious disparity and thus a clear winner View More
Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C493
6 months ago
You do realize that anyone but JZH has the right to reprimand or even punch YRS?
He and FJY are the same in creating misunderstandings between Xuxu and YRS time and time again, the only difference is he does not create them actively, though he also never does anything to resolve them.
If he was an understanding person he would have done the opposite of FJY and deliberately avoided meeting Xuxu or talking on the phone too much. Because of all this YRS had the right both morally and legally to defend himself and counterattack, but he made the decision to ignore it and run after his wife.

It should be obvious that I don't really like JZH, as I absolutely dislike his self-serving manner in regards to Xuxu. A real friend would take a step back to let Xuxu and YRS' relationship develop, even if he doesn't give up. View More

LovelyPie: JZH, just one punch was not enough for YRS. But thankfully he realized that he deserves to be shot one million times 😌

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C476
6 months ago
To-Do-List for YRS:
First deliver a slap to the insolent b*tch, because it isn't that difficult to see whether the chocolate was prepared by a hotel, especially a high class hotel, and she obviously ignored it.
Then run after your wife and apologize for having been an ignorant insensitive and stupid fool for years and then don't leave her side even if you have to camp outside her room until she is willing to give you a chance to do better. View More
Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C475
6 months ago
It's her own fault. If you want something to go the way you want it to: do it yourself
If she had just told him about the present for him in the room or even better handed the chocolate over herself, it would have been foolproof, but those two fools struck again instead. View More

Swaning: Argh Xuxu's hard work and made with love chocolates are now in the stomach of a white lotus snake woman! 😩

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C474
6 months ago
So hilarious that they still think that Xiaye is hung up on that blind idiot where as she would prefer to enjoy her still newly wed life with her husband, if they just stopped bothering her.
The coup de grâce is that Xinyi wouldn't have to worry about losing that idiot, if she was different from her mother and chose to live her own life instead of bothering someone who can't be bothered to deal with her. Result: her own actions will cause her to lose everything. Karma is a b*tch, it always blindsides you in the way you expect the least. View More
The Most Loving Marriage In History: Master Mu’s Pampered Wife · C252
6 months ago
My point was that she could have calmed him down instantly and none of this would have happened afterwards, instant gain and no chance of trouble afterwards.
The smart choice vs a sense of self-satisfaction: we all know which one has always won so far in this novel. View More

robbra: Nobody expected that fool to be so accommodating esp not Xuxu. Hence she thought she was surprising him.

Elite Doting Marriage: Crafty Husband, Aloof Cute Wife · C473
6 months ago
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